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Mental and emotional wellbeing are a key part of our general health. Any major life event or change – including illness and health problems – can have an impact on mental wellbeing.
Struggling with your mental wellbeing does not necessarily mean you are mentally ill, or that anything is wrong with you. It is normal and healthy to have emotions like anger, sadness, or anxiety – which does not stop them from often being unpleasant and hard to manage.
Some conditions (such as stroke) and physical symptoms (such as fatigue or breathlessness) may also have a direct effect on your emotional state. For example, when you are fatigued, you may find you are more prone to low mood and emotional “numbness”; on the other hand, severe breathlessness or heart palpitations can trigger anxiety.
Remember that there is no wrong way to feel. What is important is that you are able to cope with your feelings and to come to terms with them. If you do not feel able to manage your feelings, or if your mental state is affecting your day-to-day life, it may be helpful to talk to someone. This might be a doctor, nurse, or counsellor; on the other hand, it might be a friend or family member.
The pages in this section are a very brief overview of a very complex issue. If you are struggling with mood, emotions, or mental wellbeing, it is best to seek more specialist information.
The experience of a medical condition can impact a lot on your mood. So can the stress of being close to, or responsible for, someone else who is experiencing medical problems. Often, this comes with the realisation that there are things you can no longer do, or big changes in your life which affect the things that comfort you.
Low mood or depression don’t just mean being sad. They can also feel like:
A low mood is not necessarily a mental health problem. It can be a healthy reaction to an uncomfortable situation. However, it can also affect your ability to manage your life, and it can be very unpleasant. If you feel that your low moods are making it hard to cope, or if your low mood has lasted for several months, you can always speak to a doctor, nurse, or mental health provider for support.
There are some things you can try to help raise your mood:
Talk to someone: Often, working through your feelings and discussing what is causing your low mood can help to make you feel better. This doesn’t have to be a specialist – chatting to a friend, family member, or trusted colleague can make a big difference.
Mindfulness: Trying to be conscious of your feelings, and especially trying to be aware of things that make you happy or grateful, can help your emotional state a lot. It can also help you to recognise issues which may be causing your low mood, and begin to address them.
Routine: Building a daily routine can help you to stay active and engaged in life, and give you structure which helps to support your emotions.
Being social: Even if you don’t talk about your feelings or your health, just being around other people can help. Humans are social animals, and spending time with others is important to our mood.
Exercise: If you are able to exercise, this can improve your mood a lot, especially if you can go outside. Exercise releases endorphins, chemicals in the brain which trigger happiness and excitement. Even a small amount of exercise can help your mood.
Diet: Sugar, alcohol and caffeine can all cause energy crashes, which lower your mood in the long run, even if they may make you feel better for a little while.
Troy faced a long road to recovery after his stroke. His anxiety and concern over the immediate effects of the stroke quickly gave way to concern and frustration about when and how he would get better. Troy and his wife Pippa also had to deal with further trauma, with the terminal illness of his stepfather-in-law, Tom.
The stress and strain of dealing with the aftermath of the stroke was beginning to tell on him.
Troy says frankly: “I had to take stock. I have been practising mindfulness and that had helped me when I felt overwhelmed. I did some reflective practices to focus about who I was and that was difficult but ultimately very helpful.
“No one had told me you can get depressed after a stroke, and I’ve had to be vigilant to acknowledge the signs because I could feel down and frustrated, which was affecting both Pippa and me.”
Everything changed for Troy when he was referred to Chest Heart & Stroke Scotland stroke nurse Audrey, who helped him get the emotional and psychological support he desperately needed.
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Stress is a very normal and healthy response to health crises, either your own or those of the people around you. We react to unstable, unpredictable, and frightening situations with stress and anxiety, which are part of how we are able to find a way out of the situation. However, sometimes this can become excessive and can make recovery harder.
Stress can cause:
Stress can have major effects on your physical health. It can cause headaches, nausea, breathlessness, heart issues, and gut issues. Stress can also damage your immune system, making you more likely to get infections and illnesses. You may heal more slowly.
Stress and anxiety can also make aspects of day-to-day life frightening and difficult to deal with. For example, it may become difficult to go outside, to try new things, or to speak to people.
Some techniques that can help in managing your stress include:
Mindfulness: Being aware of your feelings and your environment, which can help you to anchor yourself to the moment. This can also include techniques to understand the situation you are in, and what can be done to help.
Talking to people: Often, working through your feelings and discussing what is causing your low mood can help to make you feel better. This doesn’t have to be a specialist – chatting to a friend, family member, or trusted colleague can make a big difference.
Breathing exercises: Focusing on your breathing can help to balance out some of the physical impacts of stress, and to calm you.
Ask questions: Understanding your situation and what to expect can reduce anxiety a lot.
Planning ahead: By focusing on how you will tackle the things that cause you stress, and understanding what you want to accomplish, you can start to feel more in control and to get your situation into perspective.
Routine: Building a daily routine can help you to stay active and engaged in life, and give you structure which helps to support your emotions. It can also help with sleep and general health.
Diet: Caffeine, sugar, and alcohol can all make stress and anxiety worse. A healthy, balanced diet can help support your body to recover from stress.
Andy was a fit and healthy 42 year old when he had a stroke. His recovery was slow. A keen runner and cyclist, he couldn’t walk at all and struggled even to hold a fork. When he left hospital, it was with a walking stick.
“My mind was like a whizzing machine of anxiety,” explains Andy. “But I found counselling really helped me manage the dark voices in my head, and it gave me techniques to manage my depression.
“Now I’m proud to say I’ve had a stroke. I am so much more positive about life and physically I have never been fitter.”
Grief is a common response to stroke, heart attack, and other medical conditions.
This is not only the case when somebody has died. People often experience a sense of grief and bereavement because life has changed so suddenly. You may feel that you have lost the person that you knew before they were hospitalised. If you were the person who suffered a health crisis, you may feel that you have lost the life you knew, or that relationships you had before have changed or been lost.
This is all a normal reaction to dramatic change.
Grief and bereavement can show up in a lot of different ways. You may experience depression, anxiety, anger, frustration, denial, or a sense of being overwhelmed. It can be difficult to express these feelings to the people around you, especially if your grief is not for a person, but for something less clear and well-understood.
Many people dealing with health problems find themselves angry and/or frustrated with the changes they experience in their lives. The changes you face can feel unfair, and you may find that you struggle to make your experiences understood. This can be especially true if you are struggling to communicate.
It can also be very frustrating to deal with health services when you have long-term health problems. Some health professionals may be dismissive or talk past you, and even if they are not, they may not fully understand your experiences. Many health professionals use jargon and specialist language which can be difficult to understand. All of this can be very aggravating.
It is completely normal and healthy to feel angry at times, especially in stressful situations. What is important is that you manage this anger and frustration in a productive way, which doesn’t cause harm to yourself or the people around you.
If you feel that your anger is out of control, or that you are uncomfortable with how angry you are, some things that can help include:
Damage to your nervous system, which is common in people who have experienced a stroke, can lead to emotional dysregulation – a difficulty in controlling your emotions. You may also express emotions that aren’t appropriate to the situation.
Over time, you can learn tools to help manage your emotions. If you feel that your emotions are out of control, consider speaking to a doctor, nurse, or counsellor about ways to manage your feelings.
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Read our Essential Guides for more information.
Download our booklet on Mental Wellbeing to find out more about the topics discussed on this page.
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SAMH – the Scottish Association for Mental Health – is Scotland’s mental health charity, and can offer information and support for a range of mental wellbeing issues.
Mind is a UK-wide mental health charity offering support for a wide range of mental health concerns.
If you are struggling to cope, you can call Breathing Space on 0800 83 85 87 or visit their website.
NHS Inform has a range of pages offering information and self-help guides for mental wellbeing.
Visit our Services page to find out more about the support that’s available to manage mental wellbeing when you have one of our conditions.